marshmallow
Number of posts : 151 Registration date : 2007-03-14
| Subject: sad little boy 2/5/2007, 3:07 am | |
| Just got one very sad, worried little boy in to his school Took an age to get him dressed, then he didn't want to get in the car, but I managed to persuade him because we had to take S (his sister) anyway. He wouldn't get out at the other end, so I left him in the car with his brother while I took S in. Then another mum helped me by looking after his brother while I got him out of the car, and walked them to the school door with me. D had been screaming in the car, worrying about being sick or soiling himself (not the words he used!) He went quietly to the classroom with me and I sat in thete while they had a story and foe a few minutes while he played. He looked so sad adn pale and worried. He'll not cause a fuss now he's there because he never does, he bottles things up and conforms, to fit in. I feel awful, worse mum in the world award for me today, should have done something different. | |
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Bambi Admin
Number of posts : 1992 Age : 51 Localisation : West Yorkshire Registration date : 2007-03-11
| Subject: Re: sad little boy 2/5/2007, 3:21 am | |
| No way are a bad mother!!!! and please dont say that ever again, ur a loving and devoted mum, NEVER for get that Ok just a word of advice and experience T was EXACTLY the same as D, it amazes me that our children are very similar in a lot of ways and what D is doing and feeling is what T did. In the end he suffered severe anxiety & depression resulting in our GP having no choice but to sign him off school sick and to request home tutition for him (not that he has had it for over 5 months now). I would strongly suggest u go to see ur GP about D and explain in detail his anxiety about attending school (this will be on record and ur evidence of Ds difficulties). Awww hun i wish i could make u feel better but please and im begging u, dont ever feel ur a bad mum, where would D be today without u? i rest my case and im sending u more Let me know how u get on at GP and make an appointment now!
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misty
Number of posts : 783 Age : 51 Registration date : 2007-03-12
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mum2charlotte
Number of posts : 811 Localisation : Surrey Registration date : 2007-03-27
| Subject: Re: sad little boy 2/5/2007, 3:01 pm | |
| Awwww, what on earth makes you think you are a bad mummy??? Please don't think like that, it clearly isn't true. If you WERE a rubbish mum, you wouldn't be thinking the way you are, would you? You wouldn't care. We think you're and you need a | |
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marshmallow
Number of posts : 151 Registration date : 2007-03-14
| Subject: Re: sad little boy 3/5/2007, 8:10 am | |
| Thank you! He's happy today because schools closed! He's got a paed appointment next week so maybe they can help, otherwise I'lltake him to the GP. | |
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Bambi Admin
Number of posts : 1992 Age : 51 Localisation : West Yorkshire Registration date : 2007-03-11
| Subject: Re: sad little boy 3/5/2007, 9:20 am | |
| Good to hear he is happy, i love to see T REALLY happy and contented. Well done and dont hold back with telling the Paed EXACTLY how it is, D needs ur help here and only u can help him thinking of ya and do let us know how it goes | |
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