Well after a lot of years of battling we now have it in writing that A has an Autistic spectrum disorder. So now it feels like a big black cloud has finally been lifted from me. Its taken 3 assessments and 3 different diagnosis so today i feel good. I know it doesnt change A but it will help him now and in the future. So the future looks bright now.
It makes me sick though that his first ever assessment was when he was 3, the 2nd Dr we saw was a psychiatrist when A was 7 now finally when he's 11 we finally get the correct diagnosis. So for all those who are battling keep up the fight its worth it in the end.
So now we just have to wait and see if he will get a place in the secondary school that has an Autism unit we find that out soon.