Aww hun
we do it with hope that things will be ok and to not isolate them or us!
Bless ya and i do understand they can be so good and yet so bad, thats what makes it so much harder to cope with.
Myself i think but he can do it because he has shown he can, but its like something switches in their heads and thats it all out of the window!
I know T can and has shown better behaviour in certain situations/outings, yet at other times he simply cannot cope or do it like he has before, VERY frustrating!
T has bit me and smacked me full force in my face this week and i could see the parents i was with squirm at the violence from him, they will say they dont know how i do it. I feel like a battered wife at times but the difference is i cant get away from it because a partner isnt hurting me like this, its my son