T went out with his SW yesterday and on their return T saw his friends playing footy in the garden opposite, T rushed to get out of the car and went to cross the road without looking and a car appeared. I had to shout to make him stop and thank god he did or the car would have hit him for sure
my heart was beating so fast and i was shaking (this is the 2nd time this has happened outside our home).
I then called T to come to me and to look at me when i am speaking to him, T was laughing about it, i told him its no laughing matter, that it is dangerous and how he should use the green cross code (not that it had any bearing and it hasnt done for many yrs now).
Ts SW saw it all and commented on the fact T does not see dangers, ur telling me! I have noted all this down and sent copies to his Paed and my solicitor aswell as Ts SW.
Also its half term this week and T has been getting stressed about his friends not playing by the rules to which i get his backlash (he gets frustrated when his friends do not do throw ins and penatly kicks while playing footy) T says 'they dont play by the rules (like how the game is played by professionals and on TV).
T has also been violent to several children to the extent of another parent coming to our home to air her anger about T kicking her daughter for 2 days running and another parent told me he had to physically stop T from kicking this girl outside his home on our street.
Its all so hard and T finds it difficult, he comes in and tells me his frustrations and that i should go and tell them, i cant be telling the kids how to play with him and that they should play his way, but T really does think i should and will get angry at me for not doing so
He so wants to play and interact but he fails to do it appropriately and gets so upset if things do not go his way, i just dont know what to do anymore.
Northern lass born & bred!