suprise break

[b]Just thought I'd share my good news in the hope it gives you all some happiness(if you know what I mean,dont wanna seem like Im braggin etc)
Im taking dear son(adhd) and his dear brother to disney on 11march with another friend&her sons(her eldest has adhd,in the same class&best friends with my son)(what are the chances of that!)its been booked for 6 wks now and NON of the kids have ANY idea!
we not telling them till we wake them up at 5am on day of hol,
im so DYYYYINGGG to tell them&have nearly let slip once&said
"RIGHT if you dont behave ,then u not going to D,D,dd DOWN TOWN for an errmmm,MACDONALDS
we went 5 years ago but sadly they dont remember much of it,
J has been nagging to go but told him mummy doesnt have enough pennies&he was so good about it saying"not your fault daddy left us when we were born(bless him!)
so j's dla is taking him on holiday,
just wondered is that ok tho?its for him right,so spending it on him,ok us 3 going but i cant help but feel guilty,like it should go in his bank till hes 18,but then he wont benefit now,
Im exited I can do things for him with the dla(without spoliing him) but feel a bit shit like im deciding what he does if u get what I mean,dont get me wrong,nearly all of it goes in his bank which i cant touch&if he wants/needs something then the rest is there,just feel like Imtaking the piss or sumthing
lolly xx
hope you all ok
xx

Awww, Lolly don't be so daft!!!

DLA is to help out for now IF YOU WANT IT TO!!!

If you want to save it all, then that's fine too!

Personally, we use some for days out and special presents for C and I always stash some away for her future.

Please don't feel bad about spending his money on him! My goodness you all deserve a break and this is a perfect way to do it without saving up for 40 years!

I would love to see his face on the morning of the trip! How exciting for you all.

Stop feeling guilty and enjoy the fact that you are able to treat your family in such a lovely way.

Hi Lolly

Awww that is a fab idea and i agree with mum2c about the DLA, DLA is a godsend and when i got Ts thru with backpay thats what paid for our hol to Disney!

OMG the excitement! i bet u have it on the tip of your tongue many times!

Hope u all have a fab time and its great to see u back again, damn pc's they give u nothing but headache at times!

I totally agree with all the above! You go girl!! xx

aww thanks all of you!! that makes me feel so happy!
yeah the dla makes a big difference,i got back pay on that and also tax credits so thats paying for our trip and also a 2 week break somewere hot in the summer holidays(possibly turkey or bulgaria) cos J is desperate to see dolphins again.
his latest obsession is with mermaids and hes been a *merman* for weeks now, I cant get him out of the bath,everything revolves around mermaids&H20 on nickleodeon,bless him,you wouldnt think hes's nearly 10,but if hes happy then thats all that matters,its a great excuse to try get him to eat more salad&fruit cos MERMAIDS do
hope you all ok
love lolly xx

Bless him and i hope u enjoy many more hols to come! I say now we get DLA, we are to go abroad for a hol at least once a year and i think we deserve that at least!


I wanted to go to italy or turkey in the summer but T is having none of it, he wants to go on a Haven hol (he has seen the adverts) and i think its his way of getting out of flying if u ask me

aw bless him!!! my two lads love flying but everytime we go I gotta go thru the *what if the plane crashes,how do we get out,what if we die,who will look after us,what if sharks eat us"
blimey..SO MORBID,but at least they watch the safety instructions lol
I really hope u get a holiday hun,u deserve it

Thanx hun and we all deserve it!

I want to take C abroad too, and thanks to DLA I probably can now! All I have to do is decide where to go......


...Our trip to SA is on indefinite hold (grrr!!) so maybe a wee break in Italy as it's not too far for her maiden flight! I just hope I can get her back on the plane to come home!

We'll have to pay regular visits to the airport too, so that she can get used to the noise and bustle....bless.

I'm looking at Malta for mid-April. Just me and mum for a few days. I look forward to that.

Okay everyone I need suitcase measurements so I know what size I need to squeeze into

So many trips this year! Do we have dates so I can book time off work??!! xx

we'l be gone in 11 days&ive got a large suitcase if ya wanna squeeze in

Heehee!! Thank you!! I'll bring the wine & brandy!! xx

Have a fantastic holiday Lolly & Family!!!!!! Say hi to Mickey, Minnie & the gang from us!!

Do take lots & lots of pics please!!! we loves pics!

We really must all go on hol together sometime, its a must! imagine what a crack it would be and our kids would love it im sure

Im planning to go on a Haven hol in the summer, if anyone wants to join us?!

Can I bring the cat?

look here i'm getting a little p****d off with people going on holiday and not inviting me , my last holiday was oct 2006, where as the rest of have all had holidays within the last year, i have a very large suitcase so you don't even have to supply me with one, so come on who's gonna invite me first? xx

You and me both Kebab.
Can't remember the last time I went anywhere....

...come to think of it, I don't even HAVE a suitcase (the cat was ill in my last one and it was never the same after that!)

....the suitcase, that is. Not the cat.
He was fine, better out than in seems to be his approach!

I hope you all have a lovely time there. You sound as though you deserve it.

Lolly! What is your avator a picture of? I can see what looks like dolphins and a glass but can't make sense of it! Sorry! Probably the wine intake!! xx

lol,im not sure either I can see just about as much as you and im only having a cup-a-soup lol
sorry its taken a while to reply,we had that fantastic week in disney the the week after my youngest had to have an op on his little bits,Talk about busy!
well I hope you are all ok,missed ya all!
lolly xx

Glad you all had a great time! I bet it seems ages ago already!!! xx

So pleased u had a great time Lolly where are ur pics???? we love pics!

Bless ur little one having an op on his bits, got a bad feeling about Ts bits too, things are not right for him in that dept and im anxious about what will needed to be done. How did ur little one cope?

My eldest had an op on his bits aged 4, T being T tho i know its not gonna as easy!

he coped&is coping really well,tho i wont lie, he was in pain after his circumcision and cried so much,he came home with a kidney bowl over his bits,where it stayed for 2 weeks (I had pinched 3 clean ones from the hozzy tho lol)
he was told to rest for 2 weeks but he soon got bored&no p.e for 4-6 weeks,its been 4 weeks now&hes ok about getting in the bath with bubbles(if he wants) cos it doesnt sting anymore.
hes also asked"when will my skin grow back over my purple man" (cringe ,i was gobsmacked!)I told him it wont and "purple man" will be used to being out&about lol
I must say its very neat&tidy and is causing him no probs whatsoever,I really hope t's bit are ok hun&if u want any advice please let me know